I sympathize with you deeply, and I have similar experience with you. When I was in primary school and first grade of junior high school, I was insulted by some classmates. They thought I was an idiot with underdeveloped intelligence quotient. Some of them think I have one more pair of chromosomes in per cell than others.
I don't know what other aspects of ugliness you think are besides your corpulence. But no matter what's wrong with your appearance, I hope you realize these things:
1. Now these students' statements about my IQ can be falsified. If I'm really short of IQ, can I write so many strictly logical answers on Zhihu and get so many agreements? So when you are doubted, I hope you don't abandon yourself but bravely use correct practices to prefect and prove yourself.
Now as you have realized your appearance, you should start with the main contradiction that affects your appearance. If you are corpulent, you could lose weight through active exercises and moderate diets; if you aren't tall enough, you can get injection of growth hormone and supplement calcium products before your epiphyseal line is completely closed; if your skin isn't good enough, you'd better eat less spicy and greasy food and more fruits and vegetables, use some skin care products. But I don't recommend you to have cosmetic surgery very much, especially bone grinding and pouch removal, because these operations aren't only expensive, but also dangerous.
2. Ma Yun isn't a very handsome man, but now no one will despise him because of his appearance. Although his ideas as "996 working mechanism is a blessing" are controversial, admittedly, he has made great contributions to our country. Even if you find promptly improving your appearance is difficult, you can also focus on improving other aspects, such as morality, talent, social contribution, etc. If your strengths in these aspects are outstanding, others won't care too much about your shortcomings of appearance.
3. In your question, you often mention that other people take the initiative to say you are ugly, but have you ever thought this can reflect their quality problems. A person with high quality will never insult your defects in front of you, what they value more is your spiritual cores. Therefore, I hope you can study hard, so that you are more likely to come to a better environment and communicate with highly qualified people.
And I hope you can keep your confidence and stop hurting yourself. Your confidence can buff your appearance.
You can compare yourself with aunts of your canteen and grandmothers of your neighborhood to see whether you are as good-looking as them. After all you have more youth than them.
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