- There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. - Oscar Wilde
人世间的悲剧只有两种:一种是得不到,另一种是得到了。
(庆幸你还在默默地追求着、痛苦着、感受着。)
- You'll be fine. You're 25. Feeling unsure and lost is part of your path. Don't avoid it. See what those feelings are showing you and use it. Take a breath. You'll be okay. Even if you don't feel okay all the time. - Louis CK
你会好起来的,你还年轻,不确定和迷茫感也是你人生感悟的一部分,不要拒绝它,用心感受它给你的指引,好好利用它。吸吸呼,放轻松,纵使你现在还是觉得很难受,那也不要紧。
(记得父母有一次对我说,“大不了,爸妈养你咯?”觉得特别安心。)
- “I am my own biggest critic. Before anyone else has criticized me, I have already criticized myself. But for the rest of my life, I am going to be with me and I don't want to spend my life with someone who is always critical. So I am going to stop being my own critic. It's high time that I accept all the great things about me.” - C. JoyBell C.
“一直以来我都在自我伤害:当我感到别人中伤了我,在此之前,我必然先无意识地进行了自责。我决心在我有限的余生,成为自己的好朋友,也让那些不友好的人滚得远远的;我会先从自身做起,不随便责备自己。
嗯,是时候接受所有关于自己的美好一切了。”
Q: What is always better the first time?
A: The first view of snow; the first rain of the year; the first time you ride a bicycle all by yourself; the first pay cheque that you give to your parents; the first thing you have built that reaches the hands of your users .
The first time you realize that you won't be doing something for the first time again and just stop to enjoy that moment. 问:什么东西第一次最好呢?
答:生平第一次看到下雪,当年的第一滴春雨落到人间,人生中第一次学会自己骑自行车,工作后寄给父母的第一笔汇款,第一次看到自己亲手做的产品落到用户手中....
第一次,你意识到,以后的再多日子,都不会有另一个第一次,所以你只是停下来,静静地享受着现在的每个第一次。
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最后,送给大家一句小熊维尼里的话作为结语:
- “How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye hard. ”- Winnie The Pooh
一想到我能让你如此恋恋不舍,我就觉得自己是这个世界上最幸福的人了。 |